Ms Kramer, who had her son, Ryan, through a sperm donor, started the registry in to help connect so-called donor families. On the web site, parents can register the birth of a child and find half siblings by looking up a number assigned to a sperm donor.
Many parents, she said, are shocked to learn just how many half siblings a child has. Many of those questions were debated in Britain shortly after the birth there, in , of Louise Brown, the first baby born using in vitro fertilization. In , the British government appointed a committee, led by Mary Warnock, a well-known English philosopher, to look into the issues surrounding reproductive health. The groundbreaking Warnock Report contained a list of recommendations, including regulation of the sale of human sperm and embryos and strict limits on how many children a donor could father 10 per donor.
The regulations have become a model for industry practices in other countries. Sperm donors, too, are becoming concerned. Dr Robert G Brzyski, chairman of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine ethics committee, had been sceptical that there could be donors with more than children.
But now, he said, it is time to take another look at donor limits. Now I think there needs to be a reassessment of the criteria and the policies regarding the appropriate number of offspring. So keep your moment and, if sincere, great fortune will come.
But everyone has always been very comfortable talking about it and that made a big difference in me growing up and being comfortable and stable.
Being home-schooled until she was 12 and consequently side-stepping any potentially damaging playground jibes, reinforced JoEllen's self-assurance, enabling her to take the next step of her labyrinthine voyage of personal discovery in her stride. When she was 12, her mother showed her an article about a website, donorsiblingregistry.
I dreamed that he'd make contact, but I never expected it to happen. For two years, progress stalled. But then Danielle Pagano, 14, visited the DSR website after learning from her married heterosexual parents that she, too, was a donor child.
Seething with resentment that her parents had kept the facts of her conception from her, and armed with her donor profile number , which was , Danielle entered her details on to the site and instantly discovered that she had at least one half-sister, JoEllen Marsh.
Following a flurry of awkward emails and phone calls, the girls first met in New York when JoEllen was 16 and Danielle Around the same time, the girls were contacted by a New York Times journalist writing an article about donor siblings, and the subsequent story of their collective quest to find their donor father made front-page news.
On the other side of America in California, in a Venice Beach cafe, year-old retired sperm donor Jeffrey Harrison was enjoying a morning coffee when the New York Times story caught his eye.
I had been lied to as a kid by my parents, and that tore me up. Jeffrey recognised himself as the donor in the story because he remembered his donor number from when he signed up with the California Cryobank. Initially, he assumed it must be from another clinic, but then he read on and saw that it was from the California branch and … the rest is very peculiar family history.
Whether they approved or disapproved of me; it was their right. What JoEllen hadn't visualised was a former Playgirl centrefold and erotic dancer with a history of depression and a penchant for wild conspiracy theories, who lived in a battered RV in a California car park with his dogs and a rescue pigeon.
Born in Delaware to upper middle-class parents who divorced when he was six, and clearly unsettled by his father's military-style parenting morning "inspections" were commonplace for Jeffrey and his sibling "troops" , he suffered from severe depression as a teenager, and from an early age sought solace in the less-threatening companionship of animals.
More comfortable on society's margins, and flitting between part-time jobs as a model, waiter and a masseur after he moved to Los Angeles in the s, he'd gradually downgraded from apartment to mobile home, and his current status as a tie-dyed, bong-smoking "fringe monkey" whose closest relationships remain canine not human.
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